Some friends are a little too gregarious in personality, a lot of fun to be around and never boring but not everyone is on the same high octane energy level as they are. I have friends like that, who are so fun and full of energy that they can be a bit much at times and I know I can also be one of those people (I strongly suspect). I find myself and also some of my friends shying away every so often.
As for me trying to manage friends that have extra energy, it’s something I’m still trying to balance or manage because of our different energy levels.
Lately, I notice a few people doing that of me. They have no idea that of am conscious of this pattern. It does make me a bit insecure at times. I have no idea if it’s me or the shying away friend that is the issue but it sure makes me feel unwanted and so I go away. I feel like I’m invading their lives and don’t belong, rejected. Many times I’ve realized that people DO NOT want to get close. *takes note* be a little more aloof 
Now that I know the feeling of being that high octane energetic person, I will try to be a little more conscious of my energy levels, so others don’t have to ‘manage me’ and instead I manage myself.
Hmm maybe it’s not my energy levels and instead the content of my conversations hmm. That’s another blog post hehe
